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Happy But Anxious New Year
As the year comes to an end I feel a weird nervousness that I am unable to fully explain. It feels like something important is slipping away from me that will never come back. When I think about the Christmas and New Year holidays that went by, I realize that I miss the comfort it brought me, the feeling that life had paused for a moment and everything felt a little safer and easier. Now that the holidays are over that feeling of comfort is gone and it makes me anxious becaus
mentallurgical
Jan 12 min read


When My Idea Was Launched Without Me..
In the year 2021, I came up with an idea for an app that I truly believed had great potential and could make a meaningful impact on many peoples lives. I thought the idea was new and valuable because it was meant to help people turn their everyday skill into real opportunity, especially the one that often went unnoticed or unutilized. Instead of starting quickly, I chose to spend a lot of time thinking, planning, and discussing the idea, believing that waiting for the perfect
mentallurgical
Dec 22, 20252 min read


A Mindful Weight Loss Practice — No Fads, No Extremes, Just Awareness...
Everyday we come across professionals and even common public coming up with expert weight loss advices, personally or through different channels. Fad diets trend every few months, gyms that sell transformation promises and supplement companies introducing miraculous shortcut molecules. Yet so many of us like me struggled because most of these methods ask us to overhaul our lives in ways that are neither practical nor sustainable. Earlier this year, I found myself stuck in tha
mentallurgical
Nov 30, 20253 min read
Small Spill, Bigger Revelation...
Someone recently shared an experience that stayed with me, not because of the water that her baby spilled at an event she attended, but because of what happened around it. The lady had been an attendee to a small community music show on invite from one of her friends who happened to be a performer at the show. At the show, her baby accidentally dropped a bottle and the water splashed onto the floor. Apparently not a major issue or rather just a normal thing that can happen to
mentallurgical
Nov 27, 20252 min read


Why My Day Really Starts At Noon??
Today morning when I woke up, I felt so drowsy and my eyes were open, but my mind was still half asleep. I sat for some time, but I did not feel like starting my work or learning anything new. As a matter of fact, this is now happening to me almost daily. I have noticed that my mornings were starting to become unproductive and my contributions to early morning meetings are just satisfactory. Often I feel my brain gets foggy at the time when I need to think and come up with a
mentallurgical
Aug 24, 20253 min read


Why Being Wronged or Even Just Corrected Hurts So Much
Recently, I had an uncomfortable but eye opening moment. A stranger confronted my young child directly over a misunderstanding. As a parent, I stayed relatively calm. I politely pointed out that if he had concerns, he should have spoken to me and not directly to a minor. The stranger’s face shifted quickly, he went from defensive to being irritated and even tried covering his mistake with small lies. He didn’t say sorry, but his silence as he walked away said enough. I took t
mentallurgical
Jul 9, 20253 min read


You Have a Mental Disorder and Your Actions are Proof
I had always observed this vaguely, but only recently did I start giving it more attention and thought. That curiosity led me to some truly fascinating insights about how the human mind works. It started with small things like a friend who passionately advocates for sustainability but casually throws plastic bottles in the trash. Someone, including myself who talks about how important health is, but skips sleep and lives on junk food. Another who says they hate drama and dram
mentallurgical
Jun 28, 20254 min read
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